Circles In A Pond
February 28, 2012 § 10 Comments
The children are writing on themselves.
I am tattooed, its true. Recently I got something new. This is the fourth tattoo since my oldest was born. She gets very excited, she loves me, she thinks its neat. She loves the fakes ones. But she hadn’t written on herself before.
The youngest is a hellion. She writes on everything and herself. The freedom and disregard for authority of the youngest has busted a dam in the oldest. The oldest is now lying, acting sneaky. Then…
I am doing dishes and I can hear the girls chattering away, playing and being silly in the “playroom”, a.k.a. a really small cozy nook behind the This-End-Up Couch. I wander into the livingroom just to check on them and notice my oldest decorating the youngest’s feet with blue triangles. Right below where she has written her own name.
“What are you doing?” She executes the “I’m Caught!” jump and I get no response.
Closer inspection reveals much decorating of skin has occured. And this is the second such incident since the newest tattoo. Sigh.
I get them both in the bathroom. I will have to scrub them since she wasn’t using crayola or anything, but some random no-name that came from a kit. I sit down on the milk crate and start pulling off clothes.
“Why did you do it?” I ask her casually. She is trying to get undressed without unbuttoning but stops at my question.
“I don’t know.” She responds, getting serious.
“Come on, I know you aren’t stupid, so knock it off. Tell me why.”
“I wanted a tattoo, like you.”
And there it is folks.
Thats how fast actions meet their consequences.
Touching. Obvious but overlooked, consequences.
Rx
sucked.
Kids emulate their parents, for better or worse.
(Try hand sanitizer to remove ink)
Im smiling.
Precious, both. Even the hellion. Wait, especially the hellion. The older and wiser one with the ancient soul …
will one day rule the world.
XX
I love them so much.
maybe one day you’ll get one together. one that both of you have as a memory of a beautiful moment you shared. when she’s 18.
is that bad of me to suggest that? something very small? chuckling…
I got my first one with my mom so…
Sounds like a tradition.
oh, and there are these pens that look good AND wash off pretty good but they don’t have harmful chemicals in them. then you can leave it on. until she gets tired of it … if it’s on a friday afternoon, she can leave it till sunday night? different pattern every weekend.
sorry if that’s a bit wild wild west parenting… i remember that things were so much more attractive to me when they weren’t allowed. so i allow a lot of things now, but try to be there.
Sounds like our cursing policy.
House and the cat. Demystifies it if they can do it.